A quote that has been on my mind for a while now is, "...asks the questions that might threaten you friendship." This idea is crucial for a relationship of any type to grow and become something worth having and for it to be so precious. How are you to know when to ask those damaging questions? If they are damaging, then should we be worried about losing that relationship? I really do struggle with this idea. B/c I really do want my relationships to be strong and purposeful. So all I need to do is ask those hard questions. What are these questions? It should be something personal, and reciprocated. I'm not saying that the person you talk to will open right up to you, NO, they will be most apprehensive, but if they know that you care for them and really hope they learn and grow, and you support them not matter what they say or do....then maybe, just maybe they'll loosen up some for you two to talk and to get to truly know each other. Again! I'm not saying what I say is THE thing or should be done how i say it should be. I'm say this is what I've been thinking about and reflecting on how I've been handling my relationships. If you have anything add, correct, or comment then go right ahead, I welcome it.
How do you know when you love someone, how do you know if that "love" is a strong pull for a friend or if it is actual love for that friend? See it's challenging, I'm not sure how to take things....I think to much, and over analyze too much. It's not easy and many times I wish it were, but I'm thankful it's not. So for the next few days, I'm not going to worry about what I usually do. Maybe I'll be less stressed, maybe I'll be able to be a fun person around my friends, and maybe, just maybe, I'll understand more. I will. I'm excited....HERE WE GO!!!!
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